There was a time, during the first year of my marriage, when asking my husband for anything felt impossible. I remember walking through shopping malls, tears streaming down my face, wishing I could buy a beautiful dress or a special dish. I was a housewife then, and he was the sole provider. I couldn’t ask him. Or maybe, deep down, I felt he wouldn’t see my desires as necessary.

Ending 2024 with a less-than-ideal coffee chat had left me feeling a bit down, but starting 2025 with Daria completely shifted my energy. Her warmth, insights, and shared passion for transformation reignited my excitement for this challenge. These chats have become such a blessing in disguise. Not only do they allow me to meet amazing people, but they also open doors to new ideas, collaborations, and deep, authentic connections.

Recently, I experienced two strikingly different client sessions that illuminated the importance of this affirmation. The first session was excruciating. Before it even began, I felt a sharp pain in my body—a signal of the client’s negative, stuck energy. The session was draining, and afterward, I felt angry and frustrated. Why had I allowed myself to endure such pain?

As empaths, we often find ourselves navigating the delicate balance between our innate desire to help others and our divine calling to live a life of purpose. This struggle can lead to burnout, guilt, and a loss of our own joy. By reflecting on the story of Prophet Adam (peace be upon him) and Azazil (the angelic name of Satan before his fall), we can uncover profound lessons about stepping into our true role and purpose.

Have you ever been told that friends are unnecessary, that they can't be trusted, or that you should keep things “in the family”? Many of us grow up with beliefs like these that influence how we approach relationships, often without even realizing it. For me, the message was clear from a young age: *“Cousins are your friends; you don’t need anyone else.”

This mission is so personal to me because I know firsthand what it’s like to not value myself. For years, I sacrificed, settled for less, and pushed good things away because I didn’t believe in my true worth. But I’ve done the inner work, invested in myself, and can now confidently say: **I love myself, and I value myself.** I want to reach young women before they fall into the same trap of not believing they deserve the best.Reena’s motto, **FLY – First Love Yourself**, aligns so perfectly with this message. It’s such a powerful reminder that when we truly love ourselves, we take off in life. We FLY. It’s amazing how deeply we both resonate with this truth.

Have you ever felt like you're doing all the right things but still aren't seeing the results you want? Maybe you’ve been working hard, thinking positively, but your finances, relationships, or health still seem stuck. Here’s the truth: It’s not enough to just want something—you must become the kind of person who is a match for it.

I still remember his words when we first met: “Mariam, you need to be on TV!” For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to be an actress. Ian’s words rekindled that belief in myself, reminding me of the power I have to speak and inspire. And now, in 2024, this dream of live speaking—both in-person and online—is starting to manifest. His confidence in me helped me own my goal of being on stage and in the spotlight, and our chat reflected just how aligned I am with this vision.

As I was reading Kaley Chu’s book, 100 Lunches with Strangers, an idea sparked: "Why don’t I do 100 coffee chats with strangers or people I long to reconnect with?" According to my Human Design as a Manifesting Generator, my strategy for action is to respond, not initiate, so I waited. The very next day, on September 30th, 2024, I opened my planner and saw it—October 1st is International Coffee Day. This felt like a sign from the universe. Excited, I quickly drafted a letter to reach out to potential coffee chat partners, feeling the momentum building.

Do you ever feel weighed down by negative energies, especially during the Full Moon? Maybe you sense heaviness, like something is holding you back, or you suspect you’re being affected by jealousy, black magic, or even the negative energy of others? I understand this feeling all too well because I’ve been there myself...