Becoming a Match

The Key to Aligning Your Inner Frequency with Your Desires

Have you ever felt like you're doing all the right things but still aren't seeing the results you want? Maybe you’ve been working hard, thinking positively, but your finances, relationships, or health still seem stuck. Here’s the truth: It’s not enough to just want something—you must become the kind of person who is a match for it.

You might feel successful in one part of your life but face roadblocks in others, like money, relationships, or health. This happens when the frequency you hold in these areas doesn’t align with the desires you want to manifest. And what determines that frequency? Your beliefs—and, most importantly, the concept you hold of yourself.

The Concept of Self: Your Internal Magnet

Your self-concept is your internal magnet. It determines what you attract into your life. Who are you? How do you see yourself? These questions shape your identity and create the frequency within you that attracts or repels your desires.

Take a moment to reflect: What beliefs have your past experiences created for you? How have those beliefs shaped your identity? If your beliefs don’t align with your desires, they create an energetic mismatch that blocks manifestation.

For example, I held a limiting belief that women shouldn’t make more money than men. Even though I wanted to manifest financial abundance, deep down, I believed I shouldn’t out-earn a man. This belief shaped my identity: I am a woman, and I shouldn’t out-earn a man. As a result, I struggled to grow my coaching business and self-sabotaged my success. I would tell myself I was fine with the money I was making, but deep down, I kept investing in courses that could help me grow.

Eventually, I made a firm decision: I was ready to play big. I decided it was okay to out-earn my husband and even reframed it as something he wanted for me, too. That decision changed everything.

Decision: The First Step Toward Manifestation

The key to shifting your frequency begins with decision. A strong decision sets the universe in motion in your favor. As Tony Robbins says, “It’s in the moment of decision that your destiny is shaped.”

So, if you want to bring in more money, improve your health, or manifest a loving relationship, the first step is making a firm decision. I recently attended a seminar where I wrote a commitment letter to myself, stating that I was ready to bring greater income into my life. Since then, my identity has shifted.

Some new identities I’ve created include:

• I act in spite of fear.
• I am a quick learner and action-taker.

These new identities support me in taking action and overcoming fear, which in turn aligns my frequency with the wealth I desire.

Let’s use a fun visual to explain this. Imagine you have two glowing balls inside you. One ball represents the identity you want—for example, “I am a millionaire,” or “I bring in $10K consistently every month.” This ball glows bright and strong, radiating a high frequency.

But then, there’s the other glow ball. This one carries the old belief: “I’m a woman, and I can’t make more money than men.” Its hold a dim light and has a low frequency, creating a conflict. Your inner vibration does not match the desires you’re trying to attract. 

So, what do you do? You change the story. You rewrite the chronic thought patterns and limiting beliefs that hold you back. You create a new identity that aligns the frequency with what you desire.

Shifting Your Identity and Frequency

This principle applies to more than just money. Whether you want to manifest a healthy body, a loving relationship, or a fulfilling career, your frequency is shaped by your beliefs and identity.

For example, I worked with a client who was heartbroken from a toxic relationship. She believed she needed a mature man to take care of her because she didn’t feel capable on her own, while simultaneously desiring to be an independent woman. This belief created a mismatch, and she attracted partners who tried to take care of her, which clashed with her desire for independence, creating toxicity.

Through deep energy and light healing, we helped her make peace with this conflict. She now holds a new identity: I am independent and capable on my own. She’s ready to attract a partner who complements her, not completes her.

My Own Breakthrough

After working with this client, I had my own breakthrough. I was able to process the family belief I held even deeper, The belief - "that women should stay at home and not earn more than men."  

I used my identity coaching process and not only shifted the limiting belief, I also embrace a new identity of : We are all souls with unlimited potential, regardless of gender. and that I am allowed to bring abundance and riches into my life.

Ready to Shift Your Frequency?

If you're ready to shift your frequency and align with your desires, I have a special offer for you. For a limited time, I’m offering a $100 discount on my Becoming a Match identity transformation session—now just $97 for a 60-minute session.

Book Your Session here: Become A Match - Intuitive Guidance and Healing

During this session, we’ll uncover the limiting beliefs and identity blocks holding you back and guide you in creating a new identity that aligns with your desires.

Plus, I’m giving away one free session to a lucky winner! Just comment below with your key takeaways and the belief you want to transform.

The winner will be announced on November 1st, 2024.

It’s time to stop holding onto outdated beliefs and create a new story that empowers you. You are capable of greatness.

So, what new identity are you choosing to hold today? Book your session or enter to win, and watch your world transform.