People Pleasing and Unhealthy Care-giving roles

Diving Deeper into our Roles 
Coffee Chat with - Melissa Miller 

In this podcast interview, we discuss how people-pleasing and our caregiving nature may show up in our relationships.

Is this you; 
You are stuck in being a subservient wife and cannot pursue your passions and purpose in life. 
You have a tendency to overgive, overcare and overdo for others at the cost of having your own needs met and in creating a successful life for yourself.
You are a protective mother who gives too much to her kids and feels she has no time for herself and her creative pursuits.
Or a protective son/daughter that has vowed to take care of mom/dad at all cost even if it means you not living your happy life.

In this podcast you will learn; 

How the vows and decisions we make from a negative emotional state can impact us in taking on a similar role as we detested. 

How our struggle show up in our life so that we can heal a generational pattern 

How disconnecting from our emotions makes us disconnect from our true needs and desire and this is could be the reason we take on a people-pleasing personality.

Connecting to your true self requires you to heal the childhood wound that closes your heart and integrate the false self you created to survive.

To get unstuck and live from your highest soul potential requires you to heal the contract and patterns you may have on a soul level.
 
And a lot more juicy stuff, you won't want to miss

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Mariam Safla, a transformational coach, discovers her lifelong 'caregiver role' is actually a generational pattern, compelling her to forgive her past and embrace her power to live true to her purpose and passions. 

"When you forgive, you open your heart more and more and more to the love and the light that is there already." - Mariam Safla

Mariam Safla is a busy mom and wife, and a mompreneur who is passionate about helping others prioritize themselves in their roles as wives and mothers. She is an expert in transformational coaching and healing and has a deep understanding of how to break generational patterns of trauma.

Miriam Safla held a lot of anger towards her dad, who she saw as constantly running to help family and friends, neglecting his own desires and needs. As a result, she made a vow that she would never be like him and would take care of herself instead. As an adult, she found herself in a similar caretaker role, neglecting her own aspirations and happiness. Through her work as a shadow transformational coach, she learned to forgive her father, forgive herself, and connect with her true self and desires. She found that the key to breaking the cycle was to make self-care and self-love a priority and to use the Hawaiian forgiveness prayer of 'I am sorry, please forgive me, I thank you and I love you'.

In this episode, you will learn the following: 

1. Understanding the Impact of Caregiving Roles on Relationships & Fulfillment 

2. Investigating How Trauma Can Lead to People Pleasing & Unhappiness 

3. Exploring Forgiveness & Soul Reading as Tools for Healing & Self-Love.

Resources:

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Connect with Melissa:

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https://www.instagram.com/melissamiler2011/

YouTube: 

https://www.youtube.com/@MomMentor_CaregiverCoach/

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https://programs.melissamiller2011.com